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Helping and supporting children, family members and friends with their career development can be very rewarding. Opportunities appear endless!

While helping is filled with good intentions, having so many career options to choose from can make decision making overwhelmingly difficult! There is also a chance that our own personal values and expectations that we may have of others get in the way. It can all be very confusing. Some that seek you out for help will find decision making the hardest thing to do; but remember your role is that of being a supporting and encouraging guide and not a surrogate decision maker! This can be very hard but it is not helpful for you to ‘take ownership’ of someone else’s career decisions.

Be open-minded and encourage all options to be researched to avoid premature decisions being made. This way the best possible choices for study and work will be considered and decided on.

The following resource suggestions have been included to help you, help those you want to support:

  • school, college or university students will have access to a career resource or advisor. Promote this resource as a first point of contact
  • attend a parents as career partners workshop. There is no cost to attend and you will learn more about what you can do to help
  • visit an employment directions network agency to access community career advisors and other career resources
  • work through and complete the online computerised career development tool MyGuide on the Australian myfuture web pages
  • visit the career development centre to access career information and advisors, course information and computerised career assessment tools

Influencing Change

In the last two decades, the workplace has been dramatically transformed. Individuals traditionally had careers entrenched in organisations, relying on the paternalistic firm for career development. Increasingly now, individuals are working outside the organisational boundaries, defining career success on their own terms rather than by the organisational measures of salary and rank. Rapid technological change and globalisation have intensified the relationship of individual careers from organisations, putting more emphasis on individuals for their own career development and creating an even greater need for mentoring.

Recent research has also reviewed the strong influence that parenting behaviour and family functioning has on career development. The findings suggest that career development practitioners should shift the focus from the individual to the family system. There is a need to develop a new and richer view of parent involvement in schools and help families become more proactive, and consider ways of duplicating helpful types of family functioning in schools, especially for children whose families are not proactive.

Parents need to consider ways in which their childrearing patterns and family interactions are or are not proactive. They can support learning strategies that promote career readiness, such as encouraging children to take challenging classes, providing opportunities to instill confidence and expectations that family members will do their best in difficult situations, and making informal contacts for exploration of occupational choices. Children develop many of their initial ideas and beliefs about work on the basis of what they hear from their parents, as well as what they observe for themselves. Parents' intentional career-related actions are important in preparing children to be tomorrow's workers and tomorrow's citizens. However, the day-to-day patterns of family relationship may be the most significant gift a family can make.

Nationally and internationally too there has been a growing recognition that career development is critical if we are to equip people with the skills, knowledge and understandings and attributes that are needed to manage life, learning and the work environment today. Career development is about building the skills to manage learning, work and life. It is a broad agenda, spanning kindergarten to adulthood.


Dr Peter John Carey
Curriculum Consultant (Technology & Enterprise, Career Development & The Arts)
Catholic Education Office of Western Australia

Resources:

Choosing a Career Practitioner - [.pdf | 120.1 kb]

The Career Industry Association of Australia (CICA) have endorsed these guidelines in help you to choose a career practitioner.

myfuture: Resources

Resources to help your own development as well as to support others explore or plan their careers. It includes a workshop, presentation and a quiz!

Report: Parents Help with Careers

Your role is also vital in prompting their thinking from early high school. Teenagers need to learn about the variety of occupations they might be suited to and you can help them in getting a real picture of what individual occupations involve. This booklet is for parents, guardians and those who have a responsibility or an interest in looking after young people.

SLP School Leaver Program WA

The School Leaver Program (SLP) aims to help young people make a smooth transition from school to:

  • further education
  • further training
  • apprenticeships / traineeships
  • employment
  • other career and lifestyle options

It’s all about developing skills and giving information and links to other people who can help. The program is open to school students, school leavers, parents, guardians and teachers.

Australian myfuture

The myfuture website has two distinct areas. My Guide; this section guides the user through activities that help explore a personalised career journey. My Guide stores the information confidentially so that the user may be access or modify and change the information through an individualised ‘user name’ and ‘password’. The Facts section contains a wealth of information on career related topics such as education and training, work and employment.

Australian Defence Force Cadets ADFC

The Australian Defence Force Cadets (ADFC) is a community-based organisation of 25,000 Cadets and 2,500 Cadet Staff in 500 Units throughout Australia. The ADFC aspires to be Australia’s leading youth development organisation taking part in adventurous, fulfilling and educational activities in a military setting.

Australian: Parents as Career Partners

Parents as career partners workshops highlight the need for tomorrows workforce to adapt to change, use technology, work as a member of a team, communicate and solve problems. Students who make the most of their education (secondary and tertiary) will have the widest options and can expect a lifetime of learning. According to recent studies, young people may have as many as 12-25 jobs in up to five industry sectors during their working lives! Workshop and further information is available from this link.

New Apprenticeships Job Pathways

The New Apprenticeships Job Pathways website aims to assist career development practitioners, students, parents, job candidates and employers in their search for New Apprenticeships job and training information.

Careers in Building and Construction

The time when a son or daughter is choosing between education, training and employment options is often difficult for parents.

Parents Helping Teens

How can parents help students make life and work decisions after high school? Parents, guardians and other significant adults can have a major influence on a student life and work choices. This Canadian resource contains useful information to help your teen!

The Youth Pathway Programme

The Youth Pathway Programme helps young people make the transition through school and from school to further education, training or employment - assistance includes assistance with work experience placements.